In response to my "Hurt" post below "Annonymous" commented:
Well...mind your own business...
You know, my first thought was to delete your comment "annonymous"--especially since you didn't have the courage to sign your name. But that would go against the reason that I keep this blog. I keep this blog so that (1) I can journal about our adoption process and (2) so that maybe others can learn about various aspects of adoption, waiting, and sometimes just about my life. So when I screwed up and UNINTENTIONALLY hurt somebody I first apologized to that person. I went further and apologized "publicly" on my blog. I didn't hide it and pretend that it didn't happen. It would have been much easier to just keep it quiet and not admit that I had hurt someone. Especially considering that I didn't CAUSE this person the pain they were going through (that was someone else). I unintentionally added salt to a wound that was open--and I feel awful about that.
"Annonymous," you obviously know more about this situation than I posted publicly. I challenge you to step up and be brave. Write to me--anytime! I'm here. I'm open. And I'll always sign my name.